A Rolling Stone Gathers No Moss

How my tranisition from service to civilian looked like.

 

The first time I crossed the pond and visited Europe, I was twenty-one years old and on a booze cruise with an organization that had been born in a pub in 1775. Back then, I never imagined that I would live overseas. The second time I was stationed overseas in Germany, I was a little older and dumber, separated from my first wife and in love with Europe. I say in love with Europe, but I can fall in love with almost any place I visit. Except for New York. Fuck New York.

The Grand Staircase, in Odesa, circa 1998.

I started to imagine living abroad during my time in Germany. Initially, I only wanted to get stationed in Germany because the unit in Baumholder was about to go to Afghanistan. That is where I really wanted to go because I heard the fighting was nice there. Spoiler alert: it wasn't. I lived in Germany for three short months, which I mainly spent on military exercises in the icy timbers of the Black Forest. Those short months had a long-lasting impact on me. Once I got used to the slower way of life in Germany, I fell in love with her. The people, the architecture, the food, beer, the weather, everything. At the end of my deployment, I tried to stay in Germany, but the Army had other plans for me. So I spent what little time I had left in Germany driving and drinking all over Europe.

The Rockies as seen from the roof of my house in Florence, Colorado.

Fast forward five years, I retired, living in Colorado on a beautiful 30-acre spread of land in a small town near Pueblo. I was surrounded by three mountain ranges and had land to play and shoot on. A month after retiring, I had lost my sense of purpose. I’d cut back on my binge drinking and replaced it with Colorado’s unofficial state flower. I slowly fell into a deep depression during the next several months. In July 2018, a friend suggested we go backpacking through China or ride motorcycles through Vietnam. Vietnam has always been my dream destination for reasons I will clear up in another post. I hopped on a plane, then on a motorcycle, and rode from Hanoi to Da Nang. I fell in love with Da Nang and went back several times. I wanted to live there. The people were awesome, the weather was amazing, and traveling from Da Nang to other destinations was not expensive. My future ex-wife was climbing the corporate ladder, and eventually, my delusions of becoming an expat disappeared.

The author cresting the Hai Van pass on the way to DaNang.

After my trip to Da Nang, I had no desire to pay for a house and a car and be anchored down. I told my ex I didn’t want to buy a house again. I wanted to travel and see the world. My disability from the Army was more than enough to live comfortably in Vietnam, with plenty left over to travel the world for two people. The idea of working just to pay for a house and car was stifling to me. Time ticked by, and the ex kept getting promoted, which was a good thing. It was her time. I told her that when we got married, it was her time. My time in the Army was over, and now it was my job to support her career. We moved to Ohio and lived on Lake Erie. I took a trip back to Hanoi and taught English as a volunteer for three months. The pandemic happened, I enrolled in art school, and we bought a half-million-dollar home with a pool in Akron.

Having dinner with the pyramids from the roof of my hotel in Giza.

At the end of my first year at the Cleveland Institute of Art, I took a trip to Europe, where I visited Albania, Serbia, Ukraine, Egypt, and Morocco. I had the bug again. The house in Akron had been a sticking point for me. In a moment of weakness, or last ditch effort to salvage our relationship I caved to my wife's desire for the home. It was a house built by an architect with many oddities. It was one thing after another — the pool needed a retaining wall before it slid down the hill into the neighbor's house, the cedar siding on the house was rotting, and before I left for Europe it snowed, causing a huge leak in the downstairs bedroom. It quickly turned into a money pit. A beautiful money pit. Ohio was nice, but my head and my heart were somewhere else. I had my own home gym, dream motorcycle, Audi A5, and pool, but they were only things. What I wanted were experiences. Not that I couldn't have them from time to time, but access to travel in the United States is expensive, and even more so now. The future ex and I weren't happy, and I think that had been going on for about three years, but neither one of us was ready to admit it.

The country was changing. People were disappearing into their algorithms and going mad. Not even the Waffle House was open before 7am. What the fuck, America. I needed to get out. I needed to do something real. When the Russians crossed the border into Ukraine, I had my reason. Onward to the great perhaps.

The author on The Grand Staircase 20 years later with my boy in the background.

Almost Died While I Was Almost Dying

 “Call emergency.” I told my wife as I sat at the table doing my breathing exercises. My chest was tight, my blood pressure 147/97. Nothing to alarming other than my chest feeling weird and my body telling me something was wrong. 

My dad died from a heart attack only five months earlier. I didn’t know what was going on but I didn’t feel good and I was getting scared. I told my wife to move my daughter to my sons room with him as I took my shirt off and loosened up my clothing and laid on the couch. 

Garrison who just got his temp stay visa rushed over from across the street. The paramedics showed up a few minutes later. The emergency doctor took my pulse and knew right away it was arrythmia, ran an ekg to confirm then put me in the ambulance and took me to the hospital. 

The on call cardiologist gave me some medication that was supposed to even out my heartbeat. After fifteen minutes, I still didn’t feel well so they moved my wife and I into a room to sleep and said they would be back at 3am to check on me. 

At 1am the alarm sounded. My phone was dead and I couldn’t check Telegram. My wife called Garrison to make sure he was up, he moved the kids to the corridor. I sat up in the bed as the ZSU anti-aircraft guns belched out flak into the sky. They were close. Hospitals being a target of opportunity to Russian drone operators wasn’t making me feel any better. I could hear the Shaheds getting closer. 

My wife and I moved out into the corridor. She made the sign of the cross on the windows before we stepped out. I also forgot to mention I broke my foot two weeks earlier so I was in a jump boot and on crutches. Spring hasn’t been my season. Here we were sitting in the corridor of the hospital because of my heart problems unsure whether I was going to have a heart attack or a stroke while my kids were back home hiding from suicide drones. I thought about who would look after them. I tried to push out the intrusive thoughts of a Shahed hitting my apartment that night. Anytime I’m away from my family and drones are flying over the city the images of previous attacks pop into mind. The ones of mothers under rubble holding the broken bodies of their kids in their pajamas.

Machine guns blasted, drones blew up. Apartment buildings were hit. After an hour we got the all clear. I laid on the hospital bed in the triage room and wondered if we would be having any visitors. Thankfully we did not. The doctor came in at 3am ran the EKG on me, told me I was fine to check out after curfew lifted. At 0500 we caught a cab back home as the city slowly crept back to life.

I'm Back

 Welcome back to the Angry American. A blog that started a month after me and my guys were nearly killed in an ambush in Samarra, Iraq in 2005. The continuity of the blog was often measured in millimeters and minutes. Thankfully I'm still here and not the subject of a tap on the table with a shot glass wielded by bearded trigger pullers.

A lot of life was lived and mistakes were made in those empty spaces. I didn't want to blog about the war at home with myself — depression, divorce. Who the hell would want to read that? Real life wasn't the same as normal life, which for me was being on patrol with my guys, not taking kids to dance classes in a minivan. I let the blog die. On occasion I would post something, get zero views and be done with it until the next time whiskey and survivor's guilt made me feel sentimental. 

So yeah, I'm back… I went from serving in combat in the U.S. Army to living in combat as a father and husband in Ukraine. It's been one hell of an interesting transition, to say the least. I'm a bit older, a little slower, maybe a little wiser… I don't know if I'm the same guy that started this blog 20 years ago. That will be for both of us to find out since we have a lot of catching up to do.

Going Home: A Blended Family's Journey Home

 I wrote the following story on May 23, 2023. We were preparing to move from Romania back to Odesa Ukraine. 

The walls are white and barren. It doesn’t seem like we have lived here for over a year. We have done nothing to make the space our own except for a couple of Lego cars and a Lego White House on one of the built-in bland black shelves. The pickle jar overflowing with wine corks tells its own story.Those are just the corks that we started saving. The other three bottles of wine a night we never bothered to save.

We always knew deep down that this place would be a placeholder for us. A temporary home while we waited for some kind of turn in the war. The day we moved in, it was like coming home from a vacation. No boxes were being delivered or waiting for us to unpack years of life tucked away in cardboard; this was not our home. I carried up three suitcases and my backpack from the car. All of our belongings.

When I read the news of Russian troops massing on the border of Belarus, I knew an invasion was imminent. I called her and told her to leave Ukraine. She brushed aside my concerns much like many of the prominent politicians and newscasters did. Alleging it was just a show of force or an exercise and that Russia had done this in the past. Ignoring the fact that Russia had also invaded and destroyed three other countries while Putin was at the wheel. I told her to pack, take her son, and head to the border.

Days after the invasion, I left for Poland; she was safely at the border, waiting to cross. She waited for over forty hours with thousands of people in line. Some abandoned their cars and walked through the frigid winter weather to escape the oncoming Russian hordes. The world was unprepared for the millions of women and children seeking refuge. The citizens of the countries bordering Ukraine sprang into action. I say again, the citizens. The government sat on their hands. The citizens moved in mass to greet the people fleeing Ukraine. They set up warming tents and donated food, water, and clothes. It was one of the most incredible things I had ever witnessed in my life. Volunteers even set up dog parks and donated pet food for the people that were escaping with their furry friends. Yes, these “Nazis” were also trying to save their pets from the Russians.

We have had an amazing time in Romania. Yet, blended into that time is the uncertainty of the future of our lives and livelihood. She left a family business that her parents had built after the Soviet Union collapsed. She left behind her brother, father, her city, and her life. She would stay up late reading about Russia’s atrocities against her people. One night she cried into my arms after seeing the pictures of Ukrainian children with their parent’s information written in black permanent marker on their fragile young backs.

We made lifelong friends, attended weddings, barbecues, dinners, and camping trips. Trying to fill a void of belonging and togetherness. Her mind would drift home. Everyone had advice for us on how to start a business or what we could do. To them, they felt that Romania was our new home and that the home in Ukraine was lost. My wife didn’t want to move from her home. She was forced out. Forced out by a country that has long sought to erase Ukraine and absorb it as Russia. So much so that the phrase “Little Russia” was coined to cover up the ongoing genocide. 
We have one month left in Romania. We will pack up what we have accumulated over the last year, and we will head east. We will head home.

When I tell people we are moving back to Ukraine, I get a mix of answers depending on who I’m talking to about the move.

“Is it safe?”
“Why.”
“Why don’t you stay- or move to X country?”

The list is long, and some people are pro-Russian. Mostly the people from the U.S. that are right-leaning. Who feel personally slighted that the U.S. has invested billions in a proxy war. They don’t see the human value of the Ukrainian people. They are the ones that had their freedom bought and paid for three-hundred years ago. They have suckled from the big fat government tit for years, and claim freedom is their right to own guns. They have never had to step up and defend their “freedom.”

Odesa is relatively safe. We have to worry about ballistic missiles and drone strikes. Hopefully, Ukraine will continue to push the Russians out, and the taste of this war will sour in the mouths of the Russians, and they will take back their sons and focus on rebuilding the mess of the country they reside in today.

We will leave beautiful and kind Romania. It will always be a home for us but not our home. Someone has to go back to Ukraine. We have to rebuild and raise children there. Ukraine is not lost. Ukraine is not Little Russia. Ukraine is Ukraine.

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Ahoy

[This is an interesting snapshot of where my life was when I wrote this post.]

This will be my last post here as I transition to a different blog and a new stage of life.  

https://tristanwruark.com/

The last post I made here was in 2014. I made some posts prior to that then I went back in and pulled them from the blog.  I started this blog back in 2005. It's now 2022. Wow, have things changed. Who am I?  A lot has changed in the last eight years. A lot of life has passed through the Angry American. I'm a completely different person between the Angry American and the man I am now. I don't think I was so angry when I first started the blog over fifteen years ago. Wow. A decade and a half. I'm thinking how crazy it would have been for me to start a blog back in 1990. 1990 was the ending of 7th grade and the beginning of eighth grade for me. I would have been 13 years old. Thirty-two, 32 years ago, I would've been able to keep my own blog because I would've been 13 years old. What is the comparison? 

Here's a tik tokker who is 13 at the time of this post

https://www.tiktok.com/@stayflyooo/video/7046536814118653231?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1

This young lady has a YouTube channel at 13

https://youtu.be/tiNqhOds9l8

In comparison, I didn't have social media until I was 28 years old in 2005. This blog was my first social media. I started it because I was in Iraq, and my buddy had a blog. I didn't even know what a blog was. I just wanted a spot to share my experiences in Iraq with my family. The blog ended up taking a form of its own during my deployment in 2007. I quickly learned that people only give a shit about you when your life is in danger. 

So why am I coming back in 2022? Because I haven't really seen anything through in a year for a while. 

[I didn't see this through either.]

Many reasons really. I'm enthralled with the ability to be able to keep a diary through the years in almost real-time. Imagine if Anne Frank had a vlog or blog. Anne Frank would be the most recent time I could think of; I imagine the ancient humans being able to show us pictures of the time they lived in. What a perspective we would have for the times that history has forgot. 

Anyway, I'm back. For how long, I don't really know. This is more of a New Years' challenge than anything. Obviously, we need to cover ground, and I'll do whatever, however, until I get some reader feedback unless no one is reading this. You let me know what you want to know about.

 A lot of time has passed, and we have lost a lot of people on this journey. In a separate post/post, I will name the people because they are special to me. I think that people should know their history and learn from their mistakes and honor their legacy. For now, I'm late on this post. We have more to come. It's a history of my life. I'm hopeful that it will reflect the years I lived for the person I chose to be during my short stint here in life. 

I'm not the best version of me through a lot of this life. Shit though. I had a fucking blast, literally. It has been a huge learning curve and also a blessing. I have lived through some shit but nothing in comparison to others. I would be remised if I didn't admit that it has been a wild ride. My favorite quote in this life isa quote from Hunter S. Thompson: Buy the ticket, take the ride. 

It means what it means. Life is a ride. Participate.

Anyway, I'm back. I want to tell my story. It's been tame yet crazy to me. I'm a lucky fucker. I want to thank the beautiful people who have crossed my path to make my adventure so amazing. 

Brothers means that I will always come for you. No Matter what the cost.

September is the month that is synonymous with the end of summer, the beginning of school, and the transition into fall.  For others as August draws near September looms over them like thick Iraqi moon dust stirred up by a couple hundred pounds of hidden explosives.  September is a time where grizzled veterans drink a little bit more with those that can't be with us.  To the untrained eye those men look like they're drinking alone but I can assure you, they are not.
In September of 2007, 2/16IN REG lost 6 Soldiers.  The butterfly effect from that month spans life times.  On September 4th, 2007 the 2nd Platoon of Charlie Company would leave FOB Rustamiyah and return later in the evening, one truck and five soldiers short of what they left with.  Those on that patrol will never forget how hot it was on that day.  The 7th anniversary of that day passed recently.  I had no idea what to write or what to say.  I saw several posts on different media sites.  I lurked back read and said nothing.  I wondered about the families.  I thought about the men who were there.  I thought about what ISIS is doing in that country right now.  I thought about how the war in Iraq had been officially been over now for 3 years.
My biggest fear is that those men will be forgotten and that younger generations won't know who they are or their sacrifice.  Their personalities are so much more than a name on a stone or a wall.  I believe that as one of the people that was influenced by them that I try to infuse their legacy into the Soldiers that I encounter.  That lessons learned on that day will never be repeated.  That the bravery that was displayed on that day will never be forgotten.  When asked why I do it I will always tell the new Soldiers, I do it because I get to serve with real heroes everyday.  On that day I served with Joel Lee Murray, Duncan Crookston, Randol Shelton, David Lane, and Joseph Mixon, as they road in the deadliest position in the convoy, lead.
I always tell my Soldiers that the only reason why we do what we do is because of the bond that we share.  Because you know no matter what that they will come for you.  On Sept 4th they did.  I watched Soldiers brave a blazing inferno of a truck with ammunition cooking off to get to their brothers and pull them to safety.  They didn't care about anything but getting them out of the truck.  Although it was too late for some of the guys it didn't matter.  They will come for you.  No matter what!  Real life heroes gave their lives and limbs that day, real life heroes risked everything to save them.
September is a reminder for the families who had uniformed men knock on their door to tell them their son was not coming home.  September is a month where a widow finds out that her son or daughter will grow up with out a father.  I think about those kids.  I hope they know and will always know how great their dads were.  Young Jerry I can tell you that your dad was a lion.  One of the smartest men I knew.  He loved you so much.  Isabelle your daddy carried around a stuffed animal of yours all the time and he was one of the funniest people that I ever met.  All of us loved your fathers and we carry around their memories with us.
To the parents, your sons had an incredible impact on all of us.  When this month rolls around we try to keep their memory alive.  As leaders we do it on a daily basis.  It's not just this month it's all of the time.  All of us have certain triggers that take us back to that day.  Your loved ones will never be forgotten.
Til Valhalla Gents until we can serve again.  We miss you.  You'll never be forgotten.

Stars n Stripes Article

Christmas in Kunduz

Another Christmas away from home. They started back in 1995 my first military Christmas was in MCRD San Diego. On Christmas eve we moved all the bunks to the back of the bay to set up the "grinder" so that we could practice our close order drill. Punishment for poorly performed rifle manual and drill were swift and hard. If you couldn't get right you were invited to the "quarter deck" and you were put through a myriad of physical punishment while everyone else continued to drill. There were usually only just a few people on the quarter deck while the rest of watched out of the peripheral, paying special attention to the commands being given and hopefully not ending up in the little circle of pain. The majority of the performance was satisfactory, and our reward was to eat all of the cookies that had been sent from our families, the catch was we had 15 minutes to eat all of the cookies. Failure to eat all the cookies would've resulted in a "quarter deck" smoking that would bring the cookies right back up.
On Christmas day I remember we went to theatre and watched Desperado. We were 1st Phase recruits, the lowest of the low. The top button of our cammies buttoned to the top, and our trousers un-bloused, and rolled so that you could recognize how nasty and undisciplined we were.
We were sat in the theatre with our company, all around us the 3rd Phase recruits with their name tapes, and the coveted Marine tape over their hearts, uniforms pressed to perfection and trousers bloused over highly spit shined boots, they gorged theirselves with "pogey bait" purchased at the snack shop in the theatre. We hadn't been told there would be snacks, so we watched them eat, we must have looked pretty pitiful. I enjoyed that movie, the most memorable part of the day because I got to see Selma Hayeks beautiful breasts, she made my whole Christmas. I really can't remember anything after that. I don't think we got to call home either. It was the first of many that I would spend away from home.
This Christmas I got to spend it with my brother. He arrived in country on the 23rd. The last Christmas we spent together was in 1998, after my first deployment with the Marine Corps. Christmas eve we hung out most of the night, since it had been a year since I had seen him last. On Christmas day we ate lunch together. It was pretty nice to spend the holiday with him. When we were kids we were pretty lucky we got to celebrate at least 4 times, we were constantly on the go. It was pretty busy but it was nice to spend it with the whole family.
This year I watched my own family enjoy Christmas through my wife's pictures on the internet. We had a secret Santa here, I think everyone liked the gifts I presented the best which were 2 Mylie Cyrus blow up dolls. I know what people like.
I hope everyone got to spend good time with their families. You shouldn't ever take it for granted.
The Brigade did a little story on my brother and I. Here is the link http://170infantry.armylive.dodlive.mil/2011/12/25/for-brothers-christmas-in-kunduz/.

At the Check Point

Last week was my first time at the check point that my Platoon occupies. My first couple of days there were enjoyable as we had a generator that powered the AC in our tent and the MWR where our SPAWARE computers and phones are. Well the generator shit the bed and so we spent the remaining time without creature features. I actually had to start reading again. I actually like to read believe it or not. I finished 2 great books and started another. I read Legion of the Lost by Jaime Salzaar about a guy tired of corporate America and he joins the Legion and quites later, good read though. The other book I read was SEAL Team Six: Memoirs of an Elite Navy SEAL Sniper by Howard Wasdin. It was a really great read as well about Seals in Mogadishu. I'm reading a Hunter S. Thompson book now volume one of the Fear and Loathing letters. I love HST.- What am I boring you, I was just explaining that I could actually read- losing interest? Fuck you.
Anyway it was really routine for the most part as routine as you can get with driving down a crater layden road known for blowing up. The kids around the check point call us John Cena. I think that is pretty cool and I'm appreciative that they recognize me as a desiel handsome WWE athlete. Though it gets fucking annoying. They kept finding wires in the road. We reward them with MRE's and shit is why they keep finding these. We went to investigate one of the sites and it actually looked legit so we called in EOD to come and clear it. We set up security and waited. They arrived and blew a charge, it turned out to be nothing. Better safe than sorry though. The most fun we had which wasn't really fun was the check point manned by Afghans took fire. We rallied up and were chomping at the bit to assist and kill bad guys. Our Battalion told us to squat hold and drink water until they could get the eye in the sky to check it out. Funny thing is they call back and say they can't see anything, meanstwhile (I know its not a word)RPK and AK are ripping up the night with rounds cracking over head and the insurgent and Afghan security slinging RPGs at eachother. No the eye in the sky can't see shit, and it sounded like the command doubted that this was really going on. My men were ready like pitbulls at Mike Vicks house. It made me proud that my men were willing to run to the sounds of a fire fight, standing ready to engage these Taliban shit bags and assist our Afghan security friends down the street. Alas the fire died down, and we just went back to bed. The men were let down, the command thought that we just wanted to willy nilly jump into a fight. Yes we were ready to scrap but no I would never rush wildly into a situation like that, I had a plan, just wanted to make sure we could move to assist if they needed us.
I'm confused still as to what were doing here. We are supposed to do partnered patrols, and find out what our counterparts need to accomplish there mission. They mainly need to be paid and also ask for supplies to build up there check points. We can't get them paid and not allowed to give them our scrap wood. They want them to utilize the "system", the "system" is obviously broke and we can't fix it at our level. Its frustrating to the Soldiers and to the Afghans. We know what you need and what you want but we can't do shit to get it to you so where does that leave us? Then people back at the big base watch a T.V. screen (the eye in the sky) and determine that there is nothing going on, they can't confirm that there is small arms fire going on and believe that the enemy only let off a couple of pop shots, and the Afghan security started lighting up the area. When we on the ground are watching a volley of fucking RPG fire. Man WTF?
Our PL did have a dinner for some of the local Afghan security guys, they actually showed up and we cooked some steaks and chicken and bought some bread and drinks off of the economy. My men set up a nice area and even made tiki torches out of pickets, soda cans, sand, and diesel fuel. I was really impressed and damned proud. The men really like the dinner and chalked it up to a pretty big success to the end of a frustrating week.
Right now I smell like 6 days of funk and I'm hankering for a strawberry Fanta. Until next time, I'll try not to bore you.
Deuce Deuce

DRIVEN ON! (Shitty Roads)

Routine is a word that we use to describe or daily rituals. Most everyday starts out routine then evols in to a good day, or a shitty day. On Facebook people FML all the time, i.e. "My car won't start. FML.", "My baby daddy got a new bitch and don't pay me my money. FML."- so on and so forth.
Mostly the day starts out the same, I wake up in the small plywood room in a hard stand building, an upgrade from a tent? Maybe. Question my existance and motive. Evaluate all the shit I have to do, conduct personal hygiene and the rest of my morning ritual. Roll to the CP get the scoop on anything else I have to do. Go to the trucks where my men are getting ready for the days mission, conduct inspections and commos checks and roll out the gate. On this day we decided to take a different route since the purpose of the mission is "Route Recon". It was a shitty road, as most are in the Stan. Someone in the department of defense decided to purchase vehicles almost to wide and way to heavy for the shitty dirt roads that spiderweb all over this place. I get it, they want to protect us from IED's and such but in the thinking of the new vehicles why didn't they consider who we were chasing and what they get around in i.e. dirtbikes, bongo trucks, ford rangers, donkeys.
We stopped at one village out in the middle of no where, which is everywhere. On the way there we got stuck, then during a brown out my driver almost took us into a unforgiving hole, we avoided a couple roll overs, but hey its a route recon. At this particular village we speak to some Pashtuns, and start talking about a school and how they set aside land for a school but the government won't give them the money for the school. Well in the village there is already a building for the school but due to some crazy lost in translation shit, the kids don't go there. Well we walk down the road to the school to talk to the people that reside in the school. Its a residence that is supposed to be a school. There is an imaginary line in which the Pashtuns don't cross. We get to talking to a fellow that knows about the school, he is Tajik, his brother was the principle and the Pashtuns killed him for one reason or another. I'm still pretty confused as to the Tajiks (which are fewer in population than the Pashtuns in this village). There are tons of kids and as we leave they follow us up the road and once again they stop at the imaginary line.
We talk to the Pashtuns again and I'm outside with the guys pulling security when my driver tells me about a guy who crawled 400m up the side road outside his window. The medic and I go to check it out and it was about a 18 year male who had horrible birth defects which limite him to scooting and crawling. I tried to give him some water and he swung at me, but when doc checked him out he let the doc touch him. There was nothing we could do for him. He kinda looked like the chick from the Grudge, the men said that he was a zombie and a bad omen.
Well he was.
We drove up the road a little ways and passed over a colvert that looked very sketchy we turned the trucks around and headed back over the same colvert, first and second vehicle made it over, but the third in front of me the right tire bounced the giant truck shifted, then in slow motion the truck slid right and rolled off into a 15ft ditch. I was terrified, the truck landed on the turret completely upside down. I called on the radio that the truck rolled, I ran and jumped into the ditch as the driver was eggressing. I asked if everyone was ok and they assured me they were, I asked again, they confirmed everyone was alright. Unbelievable lady and gents seatbelts save lives. 5 Soldiers rolled over upside down off a 15 foot road and nobody was hurt not even the gunner. We waited for 6 or so hours for QRF and recovery assets to make it out to us. I set in an OP on top of a hill while the rest of the men pulled security on the truck below. I believe that the Russians dug the op we were sitting in because it was perfect. 360 degrees and upto 3km vis in every direction. Had the Taliban decided to descend on us in our weakend state they would've got their asses handed to them. They didn't (unfortuanately)the wrecker driver was amazing and picked the truck out of the ditch and then towed it across those shitty roads we passed earlier. We all felt very relieved when we got back on the hard-ball road (paved road). Any slight jerk to the right or left though on the way back freaked us all out in my truck at least. We talked in length about our sighting of the man from the grudge.
Routine, sometimes routine turns into holy shit, and FML. I got back and saw the usual facebook posts. I laughed at the FMLs that were posted, and thought that had something been a little different someone might have been killed or seriously injured, in the routine day to day life, on a "route recon" a mundane and boring mission. Routine.
FML
J/K
LOL
DEUCE DEUCE OUT!!!

Semper Paratus

I just got back from RnR. Its always hard leaving the ones you love. I foolishly spent a lot of money. In hindsight was it really foolish? 4 years ago this month my Battalion lost 7 Soldiers, out of the 7 4 were from my platoon. It reminds me in this buisness that life can change for you in a matter of seconds. A routine patrol can change the course of life for so many people. While families sleep sound in their beds 3000 miles away there loved ones are taken away in a matter of seconds. While they sleep and they dream men fight to save those who are in need because they know that the Soldier's, their friends, their brothers in that burning blown up vehicle need their help they risk their lives to save them even when a part of them knows that there is no chance they survived.
In the month of September in 2007 the 4th day of that month a 20" EFP struck the lead vehicle of a convoy of 3rd Platoon Charlie Company 2/16IN. It killed 3 instantly, 1 Soldier later died of wounds, and 1 Soldier lost both of his legs.
Though the truck was on fire and ammunition was cooking off and peppering the area around it, Soldier's knowing full well that there was explosives as well in that vehicle risked thier lives to save their friends.
As time moves on details are forgotten about the day, but some things are etched into our dreams forever. On one day in a matter of minutes many lives were altered.
I go back to thinking about the money that I spent on RnR and I don't regret it at all. You never know when your time is coming.
For the Soldiers that were there and to the families who's loved ones were taken from them that day in those few moments changed them forever. To the families I hope their is some peace in knowing how much your loved ones meant to us and how tight our little family was and how that incident drew us closer. Your loved ones will never be forgotten. A little bit of them lives on with us and is passed down to future Soldiers.
To the Soldiers who were there I will never forget your bravery, or the bond that we shared. I would walk into the valley of the shadow of death with you any day.
I recently spoke to a senior NCO who was on a MiTT attatched to 2/16IN. He told me he was really impressed with the Soldiers of the Rangers. We would lose our dear brothers then be right back out patroling. The mahdi tried to kill us everyday and you men Soldiered on.
SGT Joel Murray, CPL Duncan Crookston, SPC David Lane, SPC Randol Shelton KIA SEPTEMBER 4, 2007, Semper Paratus. You will never be forgotten.

Kris Lorenzo

I had the opportunity to work with Kris during my sting at Fort Jackson, hard working and funny you could always depend on him. He was the guy that would help everyone move and fix their cars, he even came to all the functions. He was a great dad and we all loved the company of his kids and his wife. I got to talk to Leah a little bit while Kris was in transit to Afghanistan and was hoping that some how we would link up. One day on Facebook, I read Leah's post that blew my mind, that her husband had been killed by an IED in Kunar province.
Its hard when you see the names and faces and you know them and you the families. My heart goes out to Leah and her beautiful sons.
I found an article on Leah's page from the LA TIMES and I hope that you will read it and learn a little bit about Kris Lorenzo. Never Forget.
Kris Lorenzo LA Times

Always On Our Minds

Long time no post. On Joels birthday I contemplated posting and I never ended up doing it. Last night I talked about Joel a little bit. The other day Setz called me and we talked about the 4th. How it was always just right there in the little time crook of the mind. Buried but not to far from the surface.
If your seeing this post for the first time then I urge you to keep reading and learn more about these men. If you already know these men and you've seen this picture before think about them and their families. Never Forget.
I'm glad that I had an opportunity to get to know these guys and I think that if you don't know them that you should click on the links on the side and read more about them, or Google them and learn more. Find out why they mean so much to so many.

David Lane April 3, 1987 - Sept 4, 2007

On April 3, 1987 David Lane was born in Mesa Arizona. I met David Lane close to 20 years later at Fort Riley Kansas. I sat on Staff Duty with him he was my runner. He asked me if he could have dinner with his wife since we weren't getting much family time. Later that week the "new" guy would role his pick up truck on the way into work. The initial reports that we heard was that he was in ICU fighting for his life. That later proved to be a stretch of the truth and shortly after Lane was back with us at work. He immediately made his presence known as the clown within the Platoon. He was put in SSG Rich's squad and they developed a father and son relationship that brought comic relief to everyone.

In Iraq David brought smiles to all of our faces when people were worn out and dragging ass. You couldn't stay mad at him for long his antics and his silly faces would always make you smile.

David is survived by his beautiful daughter, Issabelle, and his loving mother and siblings.

Check this page out here that was set up to remember David.

Happy birthday David rest in peace brother you are never forgotten.

The Good Soldiers

I recently got done reading The Good Soldiers, by David Finkel. It brought back memories and stirred up emotions that I had already set aside. I've been reading war stories since I was in the 3rd Grade and it was exciting to read one about my unit and events that I actually took part in.
Its a good read and mainly focus's on the troops that we lost in the Battalion. Some information is skewed but I think that is with anyone telling a story you can't always get the facts straight. I'm just as guilty. If you read this blog or read it during the time when we were in Eastern Baghdad, pick up the book and you will probably be able to recognize things in which I talked about in some of my posts.
Mr. Finkel talks more so about the injuries that the Soldier's suffered in which I was a little afraid to talk about. Mainly because I didn't know if the families were reading, and I didn't know how what they had been told about how their Soldier was wounded or killed. I left a lot of detail out of the Sept 4th post, but I did this after talking to a couple of the people that were there.
I remember the reporter that wrote this article in the Stars and Stripes, when he came to interview us, my roommate Ume and I agreed to not say "Shit." to him about the extent of the injuries that our guys had and what we had seen when we first got to them.
One point in the book towards the end he talked about the vehicle that had taken our last casualties of the deployment. I remember looking in the vehicle with Simmons the Rocket Magnet and wishing that I hadn't. The smells and the image immediately posted itself in the fore front of my mind.
I talked to a couple people from my last unit who are currently in Iraq now and they had mixed feelings about the book. I think David Finkel did a pretty good job of telling our story. A lot of people when they were first in the Battalion talked about how fucked up it was and how it was the worst unit ever. I think a majority of us after seeing how the other units operated out there changed our minds about it. I think that we followed a higher standard. I know that some of the Soldier's that moved on to different units missed being with 2/16IN.
I enjoyed the book and I encourage you to read it as well. Its a story about- The Good Soldiers. Its the story about our Good Soldiers that didn't make it home. A lot of times in the news and in war stories you don't get to hear those stories.
Below are some pics that I had found on that disc that Garrison had made for me many moons ago.
DEUCE DEUCE OUT!!!

Hannibal holding a Dragunov SVD sniper rifle, that Setz had found in a home search. The rifle was hidden in a piece of furniture with a removable panel.

One of our many search and clear missions off of a tip where we stayed and looked in shit for hours in the searing heat and never finding anything.

The mission that never went. This was another one of our attempts to do the Barrier mission that would later cost the lives of Joel Murray, Randol Shelton, David Lane, Duncan Crookston, and would cost Joseph Mixson his legs.

Joel and I conversating about something I can't remember but the other pictures I have leading up to this was us at the gate talking to Iraqis. I want to say this was the day that Kuwait and Iraq played each other for some Soccer title and Iraq won. Everything was closed up early for this even the gas station.

September 4, 2007

Two years have passed since the men in 2-1 took their final ride. In the lead on a hot September day they drove right into eternity. SGT Joel Lee Murray, CPL Duncan Crookston, CPL David Lane, and SPC Randol Shelton may they never fade from the memories of the peoples lives that they touched.

2-16IN recently redeployed to Northern Iraq. I know that the men from 2-1 will once again be sitting in over watch to see them safely through their deployment, as they did with ours. Not to long ago Val sent me a link to a website for David Lane please take your time and check out. It paints a nice picture of David who was the goofy one of the group, definitely the goofiest guy out of the whole platoon. He had the ability to make anyone laugh no matter how tired or mad you were David could put a smile on your face.

I recently spent sometime looking at a memorial page for Joel Murray. How much Joel had touched peoples lives and how much his wife loves him. Its truly heart warming to know that love like that exists in real life. Its an attestment to what a great man he really was.

I was planning on trying to make a trip up to Schiller Park Illinois to visit the Shelton family but my plans fell through at the last minute. The next time I have some time though I'm going to go and try to meet the people that raised such an outstanding young man. He wasn't afraid to stick up for people, and he knew how to have a good time, and he also knew how to make that time enjoyable for everyone. He was the guy everyone wanted to be around, he was dedicated and loyal. I don't think there was a day when he ever missed going to the gym. I certainly do miss his drunk dials to me to let me know how much he loved me. Randol Shelton the legend of Charlie Company.

Duncan Crookston the resident genius of the Company. One day I will actually find that video of him doing the Rubik's cube in under 2min. As I type on my lap top now and every time I turn it on I'm reminded of him. He helped me upload all the music on to it. He helped everyone with something. He started out as my driver but he was way to smart for that position. Though I liked him there because I knew I could count on him. Thats why they made him the RTO because he was smart, and they knew that they could count on him. Crookston was severely wounded in the blast, yet he lived and fought long enough to be reunited with his family. He finally succumbed to his wounds the day before his 20th birthday on January 25, 2008.

SGT Joseph Mixson was blown from the vehicle. He was the only member of the 2-1 crew to survive. The explosion took his legs but it didn't take his spirit or his sense of humor. The last time I saw Mixson was at the Regimental ball before I left Fort Riley. He partied just as hard as before September the 4th.

I miss these men tremendously, not a day goes by that I don't think about them. I talked about legacy before and that's part of the reason why I will always post so that these men will never be forgotten. Take some time and click on some of the links I've posted and get to know these men. If they didn't stand up to believe in something then who would? You believe in something or you die for nothing, and I know these men believed in what they were doing, for a love of country and the man to their left and right. They loved us as we loved them.

To talk about their losses I also have to mention the bravery of those that came to their aid. In that they loved their brothers so much that it didn't matter that there was fire, or bullets sailing through the air and explosives that might go anytime, they risked their lives to get the men out of the vehicle. We all knew, had it been us they would've done the same, and that we could not live a life knowing that we didn't do all we could to help our brothers who were in need.

Never Forget!

God bless the families of these brave men, and the men of 4th Brigade 1st Infantry Division that have deployed again to Iraq. May they come home safely.

Happy Birthday Joel

We will never forget you Joel. I think about you a lot. I know we all do. You touched so many people in your life. Godbless you and your family. Happy Birthday friend.

SGT Joel Lee Murray 09July1981-KIA 04SEPT2007 Baghdad Iraq

http://roodawg.blogspot.com/2007/09/in-loving-memory.html

http://joel-murray.memory-of.com/

http://roodawg.blogspot.com/2008/09/legacy.html

http://roodawg.blogspot.com/2008/05/never-forget.html

Tips for those Considering the Army

When you go to basic training you are going to get yelled at so grow some thick skin real fast. Don't take it personally just suck it up and drive on.

I thought I would take the time to write down some random thoughts for young, or old men and women who are considering joining the Army or have already signed up.
1. Remember that you are VOLUNTEERING as we liked to say in the Marine Corps "U Signed the Muthafuckin Contract. Don't go to basic training and cry like a bitch and talk about "This is not for you." YOU VOLUNTEERED! We are not just going to let you go because your a huge pussy and miss your momma, there are repercussions for not honoring your service!!!!!!!
2. If your crazy, stay the fuck away from the recruiters office, we don't want your emotional pill popping ass! Don't need you don't want you. If you decide to come into the Army and can't hang and want to play the crazy card, guess what? Our mental health specialists talk to quitters like you everyday so they know when your bullshitting, and when we find out we are putting a black mark on your permanent record so good luck with getting a job in an overly competitive job market.
3. Don't plan your ship date when your wife or girlfriend is 9 months pregnant and will have your child while your at basic. Thats probably not a good time eh? Your heart might shrink and you will want to go home.
4. Here is a good one.... Get your ass in shape. If you've been sitting on the couch stealing oxygen and playing Call of Duty 4 thinking of how cool it would be to run around with a M-249 SAW and shoot everybody, and eating twinkies and Big Macs all fucking day and get winded when you goto take a shit you might want to do some running and some push-ups and sit-ups.... Excercise? Look that shit up its good for you. You get in a little shape before you come to basic training it might prevent you from crying like a bitch after you did 3 push-ups. Oh ps, all that shit your character on Call of Duty is wearing, in real life its close to 60-80lbs of equipment and in the countries we are in now it can get upwards to 140 degrees out. If your almost passing out after a shower in your air conditioned home...... psssst you might want to workout. You are joining the Military for Christmas Sakes!!!!!!!!!!!
5. Remember this YOUR NOT GAY YOUR JUST A QUITTER. How about you research our policy on that before you come and try to pull that shit. Your Drill Sergeant just might decide to call your parents and verify your story....... Hope they aren't hearing that shit for the first time.
In all seriousness make sure that all of your personal affairs are in order. If you are married and have bills to pay make sure you have a plan. Its just like starting any other job your not getting paid as soon as you get here, your pay catches up to you. Its not easy but its not that hard. All you have to do is stay motivated and follow these 3 rules.
Do what your told.
Do what your told!
GOD DAMMIT do what your told.
You follow those 3 things and you will be just fine.
The military is an opportunity to try and turn your life around, nothing pisses us off more than when you come here and try to do all the same shady shit you have been doing your whole life.
Seriously get into some semblance of shape... For real. Your Recruiters are supposed to make sure that you pass some sort of physical fitness test before you can ship. I know from experience that this shit doesn't happen. If your recruiter is not doing this for you he is setting you up for failure. Basic Training will get you in shape, but if you come here with a good base it will be easier for you.
You are not alone when you get here and miss home, everyone else does too they just handle it differently. Maybe you have never been challenged your whole life and have been on the teet for to damn long. Do something for yourself, make something of yourself.
I've been doing this for 12 years and it is a great life and I love it. Sometimes it sucks but thats life.
Good luck in your future endeavor and if we do happen to meet in the IET environment, trust me I've heard your story. If you have questions about what to do or what to expect in the IET environment feel free to ask and I will help you succeed. Honestly that is what your Drill Sergeants are for is to help you succeed.
DEUCE DEUCE OUT!!!!
You will be physically challenged these are called flutter kicks.

Friday Joined in Smoke session with the Privates, numerous push-ups, flutter kicks, and other exercises until reached muscle failure. At the end of the day went on another 4mi road march 38lbs finished in 52min.
Today Ran 3mi my time was disgusting so I won't post it first time I ran since getting bronchitis so not to bad.

19 Forever

Duncan and Droll

Today would have been Duncan Crookston's 21st birthday. He would have been of legal age to go bar hopping and partying. Unfortunately on September 04, 2007 Duncan was severely wounded in EFP strike that severely wounded SGT Joe Mixson, and killed SGT Joel Murray, SPC David Lane, and SPC Randy Shelton.
Duncan fought for his life for 4 months until his body succumbed to his wounds. It was not lack of spirit by any means because Duncan showed that he was as tough as they come. A true warrior. He died in the presence of his beautiful wife, his mother, his battle buddy SGT Joe Mixson.
As his mother said in a letter sent to family and friends, he will forever be 19. I think about him often and wished that I would've expressed to him how much I admired his skill, intellect, intelligence, and warrior spirit. He first came to my squad right before we deployed in support of OIF. Everyone marveled at his genius, and later at his bread making skills when we were in country. He was so smart that when our shit bag RTO Mavity didn't return from RnR Duncan was the only logical choice to be in charge of the Platoons radios. I was so pissed off when they took him from my squad. He was my driver at the time and also my Grenadier. When he died I often wished that it was Mavity in his place as which it should have been. I really wished it never happened but if it had to be someone not him. He should have been in my truck with me.
Duncan was nothing shy of truly amazing with the heart and stamina he possessed surviving as long as he did so he could get home and be able to see his family one last time before he passed away.
I post here to keep his memory alive and to remind people that rough men do stand ready to violence on their behalf. Duncan was smart enough to go to any school he wanted but he chose the Army and he chose the Infantry. If there were not patriots like Duncan ready to answer the call this country would cease to exist.
Here is the letter that his mother sent out the day he passed away.

Dear Friends and Family,It is with great sadness I write to you today - Duncan passed away at 3:346 p.m. today after the decision was made to stop heroic measures. Duncan developed another infection over the past two days, the effects of which were causing him a great deal of pain and causing him to run a fever of 108* F overnight. The doctor who treated Duncan said he had never heard of anyone surviving such a high fever, and that normally the body did not allow itself to sustain such a high temperature for even 15 minutes, let alone the 2 hours Duncan suffered with it. The doctor said it was an indication the hypothalamus of the brain, which regulates body temperature, was damaged. He also advised us even though Duncan survived, he would have permanent and widespread brain damage that would eventually cause his organ systems to fail, and that his kidneys were already dialysis dependent, and he was quickly becoming ventilator dependent. Meaghun and I were asked to make a decision, and we chose to allow Duncan to die a dignified and peaceful death, so he was given a morphine drip and taken off the ventilator. He died about 45 minutes later surrounded by his beautiful wife, his mother, his battle buddy Joe Mixson and the hospital chaplain he had come to know during his stay. It is the closest thing to a "good death" one could ask for a young man who fought so hard and long, only to have the limits of his body betray him. Once we knew there was no chance of any sort of quality of life, we felt we could not ask this brave young man who lived life to its fullest to spend his remaining days hooked to machines with no chance of recovery.Words cannot express the gratitude we feel towards all those who offered support and prayer to Duncan and our families during the past 5 months. We can take away from this experience the knowledge that good people exist in this world, that evil is worth fighting or that reason, and Duncan was a proud example of a good person who did not stand by and allow it to flourish by doing nothing. Duncan would have been 20 years old tomorrow - he will be forever 19 now, and forever missed.
Love, Lee Crookston

Forever 19, Happy Birthday Duncan. You will never be forgotten.

2008 in Review

2008 is behind us now.

I started 2008 at FOB Rustamiyah, and if memory serves me well shortly after midnight there Garrison burst through my door in a thong that said "I love my Soldier" and jumped into my bed. The rest of the men were gathered outside snapping pictures. I don't know where those pictures went but they will probably resurface if any of those guys read this post. I was there for the first snow fall in Baghdad in roughly over 60 years. That was the same day we escorted a bunch of nuclear waste, that was a fun day let me tell you.


A good man's body succumbed to injuries he had sustained 4 months earlier the day before his 20th birthday. Duncan Crookston the resident Charlie Company Genius will never be forgotten.
Things were relatively quite in our sector and we were doing barrier missions and setting up check points on one of the worst routes in Iraq at the time. We were trying to get that stretch of highway in our area safe for all those that passed through it. Many a night we were out there laying down jersey barriers and building checkpoints that the Iraqi's and us could use to set up traffic control points. There was still the ongoing mission of grabbing high value targets in which we favored over the barriers. We reoccupied the COP and felt safer out there than we did at the FOB since the rocket and mortar attacks had increased.
Then only days before handing over our sector to the 4thID we rolled out into the streets in mid day to find all the check points abandoned and nobody on the roads. We hit a mosque and found loads of weapons and IED and EFP making materials. We stirred a hornets nest and on the drive back to drop the cache off the Rocket Magnet (Simmons) lead vehicle was hit with an EFP and RPG. Rendering the vehicle useless so that we had to get out and hook it up to tow. Once that crew dismounted the small arms fire picked up and we started to fire back at suspected enemy locations to din the fire long enough to get the truck hooked up.
During this uprising two more Task Force Ranger soldier's were killed and others severely wounded. Sadr's uprising and ending of the cease fire were in full effect and everybody came out to fight. The day after the Mosque raid and ambush we headed back into sector and got into a short skirmish just minutes away from our COP which ended after our 1st Platoon opened up on a wahabi that had just fired an RPG at them with a .50cal. Later that night my Platoon raided the Mosque down the street from us that we had been waiting to hit forever and a day. It was a dry hole and then later we were summoned to help out our sister company, and also relieve some National Police that were holed up at their compound. D co lead the way and it almost seem like every 5min you heard an IED blow up. No casualties as we monitored their net and sped to link up with them seeing all the destruction that nearly missed them in their wake. They began shooting anything suspicious which paid off after several more explosions. Only days before we were supposed to be relieved we were caught up in a huge fire fight. As dawn broke RPG wielding terrorists braved the roof tops to fire down on our Dco sent into get a platoon from one of our sister companies. Hannibal let fury ring from his 24o and mowed them down. We were sent down to pull security on the exfil route and it seemed as if everyone with a weapon wanted to come out and play, we continued movement once the rest of the convoy was ready to go and steady shot our way off of a 2mi stretch of road. Some of the terrorists Hannibal would shoot would be dragged away from their machine gun at the end of the road and another would jump behind it.
2nd Platoons last days in sector would be spent on COP security and the other platoons going out into Indian Country. A couple of weeks later we were on birds headed for home and reunited with our families. Its hard to believe that just last March we were in a pitched battle only days before heading for home.


Reunited with our families most of us took block leave to get reacquainted. Some of missed the camaraderie of the people we had just spent 15 months with. As is true in the Army, they built a great family and then separated them. Some getting out just last month and others getting out this month and in the next couple of months. Some stayed on for another tour, and some are actually already back in Iraq.
I bid farewell to Kansas which in hindsight was stupid because Fort Jackson flat out sucks, and now I realize that my place is on the line getting Soldier's ready to go to war. It wouldn't be so bad if I actually had more time to spend with the family but right now the job that I'm in doesn't offer it. Quite frankly none of them are to excited to be here. I asked for it and I got it, well doom on me.
I have had the opportunity to open some more doors though and we will see which ones I can actually get through. I've gotten to spend a little quality time with the family which I'm thankful for. I miss the old friends from Riley, and I wish I still had the opportunity to lead those that stayed on back there.
The world is a pretty unstable place leading into 2009, we have a new president that has promised us change, we will see what happens. We could certainly use some change.
To everyone I wish a happy New Year and hopefully this one is better than the last. To all my friends and brothers in harms way stay safe.
DEUCE DEUCE OUT!!!!!

Reunited with SGT Joel L. Murray on his birthday shortly after arriving home. He was laid to rest in Fort Riley Kansas.

Extreme Makeover Home Addition

I love this show, and I think what they do for the family's they help is outstanding. Especially even more so now that they helped one of our guys that was shot by a sniper in Iraq. I had blogged the event in Luck Worn Thin. Later we would eventually catch the piece of shit Iraqi Police Officer that shot Patrick Tutwiler.
I Tutwiler almost died that day, he was later flown to the states to recover. Right before I left Kansas a huge Tornado hit the town of Chapman were Tutwiler resides and essentially destroyed the town, including the Tutwiler's home.
I found out that EMHA was there when I called one of my Soldier's to ask him a question. There was a lot of background noise so I asked where he was at. Thats when he told me that him along with pretty much the rest of the company and thousands of other volunteer's were helping EMHA build the Tutwiler's a home.
God bless the Tutwiler's and all the volunteer's that came together to help them and the Chapman community out. You actually NEED to read the story which is here. The episode is supposed to air on January 25th. Check it out.
DEUCE DEUCE OUT!!!